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The Changing Face of Beauty

Posted on 25/06/2012

I recently read that the iconic hourglass figure of Marilyn Monroe is considered fat by modern day standards. At the current day equivalent of a UK size 14, I wondered how one of the worlds most famous pin-ups went from being considered sexy to being labelled as overweight? Clearly, societys idea of beauty has shifted over time.

Looking at the history of beauty, its clear to see how ideals have changed. There was a time when a plump body was considered beautiful: in the late nineteenth century, this was thought to be a sign of wealth. During the 1950s, Marilyn Monroe and the curvy forms of her contemporaries embodied sexiness. This is in stark comparison to the modern day where women are constantly dieting to achieve the elusive waif like figure. These different standards show us that there really is no consistency in what is considered attractive - attempts to keep up with ever changing, and arguably more and more unattainable standards, are leaving women with low body confidence and self-worth.

So, when the goal posts keep moving on beauty, how can you safeguard yourself against poor body confidence? Follow these five tips to help free yourself from the pursuit of unrealistic standards:

Remember, there is no real standard of beauty

As history has shown us, ideals of beauty change in the same way that fashions do. While its easy to toss out clothes that are no longer in fashion, we cannot mould and manipulate our bodies at will to conform to the latest beauty trend. The only consistent beauty standard is that women come in all shapes and sizes, each with their own unique features. We only have one body, and its time we started accepting what we have.

Beware the beauty standard setters

Think about it, where do the beauty ideals come from? Those most invested in creating beauty standards have products to sell. Pick up any magazine and youll see adverts of airbrushed celebrities and models selling products to improve our skin, hair, body, etc. These adverts are designed to make us feel discontent with our looks in some way, to motivate us to buy a product that will disguise, camouflage, enlarge, or minimise whatever our flaw is. Remember that believing you should aspire to some standard is exactly the trap advertisers want you to fall into.

Be clear what you love about your body

Ask yourself, What are five things I love about my body? Do this with reference to what you like, not to some idealised standard. You might like parts of your body for how they look, what they allow you to do, or even because they tell the story of your life e.g. a scar you got while playing as a child. When youre clear what you love about your own body, you are less likely to make unfavourable comparisons with unrealistic ideals.

Look at the real women around you

When you look at the women around you, what do you see? I bet you dont see many that conform to todays super skinny ideals! More likely youll see real women of all shapes and sizes. This is reality, not the Photoshopped images that advertisers want us to buy into.

Focus on the beauty within

When you focus heavily on your external appearance, self worth becomes defined by your looks. This denies the many other qualities, characteristics and achievements that are an integral part of you.

Begin to appreciate the beauty within you: what are your best qualities, what are you most proud of? If you struggle with this, ask a good friend to help you. As you begin to appreciate every part of you, so you will see yourself as a whole, beautiful being, with many other facets than just your appearance.

Remember, you are a real woman, beautiful in your own unique way: dont chase the ever changing and elusive face of beauty!


by Judi Craddock

Back Author : Sheree Lowe

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